Hallo pembaca setia kali ini aku mau membahas tentang bagaimana cara mengekspresikan rasa marah elegant dan menghindari adanya konflik berkepanjangan. Sebelumnya baca dulu yak dialog sederhana bagaimana cara marah yang elegant pakai bahasa Inggris.
Dialogue A
(David stands, arms crossed, facing Mark and Sarah)
David : (Voice trembling with anger) "so , this is it? This is what is been going on behind my back???"
Sarah : (Looking down, voie low) " David, I....I can explain."
David: "Explain??? explain how ypu could betray me like this? with him ???" (his gesture towards Mark).
Mark : (Step foward, cautiously) "Sarah, I know this looks bad, and it is. but..."
David : "But what, Mark?? But you could not resist? but it just happened??? spare me the cliches !!!"
Sarah : "David, please, let's talk about this. I know. I messed up. I know I hurt you. I never meant for this to happen."
David : "Never meant for it to happen? that makes it any better?? both of you have been lying to me!" (he begins to go).
spare me the cliches = gak usah kasih penjelasan (basi)
I messed up = gue salah
Dialogue B
(Mr. Lucas and Mrs. Calore are quarrel at the apartment window)
Mr. Lucas : "Hey can you get your mutt to shut up??? some people are trying to sleep around here."
Mrs. calore : "Now, wait a minute ! Pricebis just baking because your cat is screaming all over place!
Mr. Lucas : "But do you know what time is is? it is one a.m and i have got to get up at six to go to work. If I don't get some sleep soon, there is going to be one less dog in the world."
Mrs. Calore : "Are you threatening my dog?"
Mr. Lucas : " I am merely telling the truth. Baking at night has been proven to be one of the landing causes of death in dogs."
Mrs. Calore : " you are nuts!!!"
Mr. Lucas : " That is possible, but please, can't yu get that mutt to close his trap for a few minutes? or do you want me to call the cops ?"
Mrs. Calore : " You ought to shut your own trap. you are the one making the most noise now!"
Mr. Lucas :" That does it! Bernice! Get the arsenic!
Mrs. Calore :(to the dog) "Come here, prince. NIce boy. I am going to take you inside, I don't trust that crazy old man next the door. (to Mr. Lucas) I AM TALKING HIM IN, SO YOU DON'T HAVE TO CALL THE CROPS! AND I HOPE YOU SLEEP TILL THE NEXT YEAR!"
Mutt = dog
Shut up = diem bisa gak
Baking = panas banget tauu
Close his trap = berisik deh lo
Cops = polisi
Nuts = you are crazy
That does it = kesabaran udah abis
Dari dialog diatas kalian bisa melihat pemilihan kata yang dipilih menggunakan bahasa gaul dan terlihat sangat kasar bagi kalian yang bukan native speaker biar kamu tetep keliatan keren gini nih...
Expessing anger
1. Blowing off steam biasanya klo marah gak langsung ke orang yang buat masalah tapi ke orang yang ada didekat kita. jadi orang yang ada didekat kita jadi pendengar kita yang uring-uringan, menyetujui apa yang disampaikan dan jadi penghibur atau sebagai pembawa kedamaian.
2. Mild rebuke kasih teguran ringan ke oarang yang salah, tapi banyaknya sungkan tuk negur klo udah deket (budaya indonesia).
3. Extreme politeness menggunakan nama lengkap serta gelar atau kedudukan orang memicu kemarahan seseorang, Penggunaan ekspresi ini biasanya cukup jelas dan lambat dengan penekanan tertentu.
4. Silent nah ini yang sering di pakai wanita ketika marah, mereka tidak mau mengekspresikan marahnya sehingga membuat segala sesuatunya bertanya-tanya serta tidak ada solusi. 😂
5. Sarcasm ekspresi marah ini juga sering digunakan wanita ketika kesal dengan suatu hal, jadi cara mereka adalah saling nyinyir atau menggunakan bahasa tersebut untuk menyerang. (jangan melawan ras kami) 😁
6. Screaming and yelling gaya marah ini umumya menggunakan bahasa yang serba cepat pada anak- anak.
7. Threatening gaya marah ini paling menakutkan (ancaman).
Dialogue C
Richard : "Hi, Joe!"
Joe : "Hi Chard! This should be a great show. Let's go in."
Richard : "Sure, say, did you bring my book?".
Joe : "Your book? Oh nuts! I completely forgot.
Richard :"You forgot!? but promise! I need it to study for the test. Oh, I knew I never should have loaned it to you."
Joe :"Calm down, Chard. I just forgot. Look, after the show we can drive by the house and pick it up."
Richard :"it is pretty far out of the way, but I guess we will have to."
Joe : "Don't worry. I will treat you to a pizza to make it up to you."
Richard :"Well, Ok."
Chard = nam penggilan
Oh nuts! = yah elaaa
I knew I never should have loaned it to you = kan udah ku bilang
Calm down = tenang
make it up to you = nebus kesalahan ku
Dialog C kasih tau kalo segala hal masalah jangan dibuat kusut dan Richard sadar diri udah buat kecewa Joe yang marah dan panik soalnya mau tes bukunya belum balik. Upaya yang dilakuin Richard iru udah bener banget doi memcahkan masalahnya dan langsung minta maaf pake cara gini....
Expressing resolving conflict
1. Aplogize buruan minta maaf kalo kamu udah tau buat salah.
2. Offer to discuss the matter ajak ngomong baik-baik dan santai, teknik ini bisa digunakan kalo kalian dimarahin cara no 4 dan 5 diatas.
3. Find a mediator temukan orang bisa jadi jadi penghubung kalian yang pastinya orang ini punya kemampuan manajement emotional yang stabil.
PHRASES
Blowing off steam response
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it annoys me when.... I don't like either.
I don't like it when... I don't like either
I can't stand it when... I know what you mean
It burns Mr up when... Me, too
I hate it when... So do I
Resolving conflict response
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I would like to discuss this matter. That would be a good idea.
Can we discuss this?
Please, let's discuss this. Yes, let's
Don't be angry, keys talk it over
Come on, don't be mad
Semoga membantu kalian yang lagi ada masalah buat tugas speaking 😁
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